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Wednesday, 30 January, 2008

Talking to Nightlights... live talk casts or download to listen later.

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Wednesday, 11 July, 2007

For forty years my act consisted of one joke. And then she died. (Gracie) - George Burns -Gracie - A Love Story

Love is - Love.

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Wednesday, 27 June, 2007

Hear me, four quarters of the world - a relative I am! Give me the strength to walk the soft earth, a relative to all that is! Give me the eyes to see and the strength to understand, that I may be like you. With your power only can I face the winds. -- Black Elk (1863-1950) Oglala Sioux holy man

And so we are. Related. A New community looking for inspired minds: Zaadz.

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Friday, 8 June, 2007

Focus is a matter of deciding what things you're not going to do. - John Carmack

The problem is trying them out just to make sure you are not going to do them.

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Sunday, 18 March, 2007

Wonder is the salt of the earth. - M.C. Escher

Promised to do an event. So today I will show up and see who lands at my table. Readings are fun because they offer new bits of information with the questions. I learn as much from the questions asked

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Thursday, 14 December, 2006

Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts. - Albert Einstein

I need to address a few issues of current concern. These are the thoughts that come with this situation: A very petulant expression meted out in a will. - Love is brave enough to carry on when logic a

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Friday, 15 September, 2006

Mistakes are the best learning tool money can't buy.

Take it one step further and Publicize your mistakes. You'll get more "how it should have been done" advice than you can ever use...from those who have never done and, in most cases, wouldn't want to

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Friday, 18 August, 2006

Judgement: Justice or Blame. Answers are not always forthcoming. Some events must play out for the good of the greater. The test is to remain focused on staying true to your path, letting the answer come, and not forcing a preconceived bias or desired outcome on the present.

Some tools are useful in terms of divination. Tarot is one. It is a starting point to learn how to create your own compass. One can understand the basics and then work to incorporate personal symbols

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Wednesday, 16 August, 2006

Whatever you may look like, marry a man your own age - as your beauty fades, so will his eyesight. - Phyllis Diller

: )

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Thursday, 27 July, 2006

Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. - James C. Dobson

Can you say intense?? But that assures presence...(interest and effort) The quote is shorthand for Don't Settle just to keep the peace. The problem is focus. A person who is with one person yet fixate

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Thursday, 18 May, 2006

Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within. - James A. Baldwin

Vulnerable and Raw - Love frees the child to explore the pathway to new worlds filled with depths of emotion beyond words. You know you really found it - when the material encasement dissolves. The ho

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Tuesday, 4 April, 2006

Live out of your imagination, not your history. - Stephen Covey

New contact info: wendy at thenightlights.com - Most of those I work with are looking to develop their own tools and abilities to interpret intuition and understand ongoing situations that have repete

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Wednesday, 1 March, 2006

When you understand time is all you have - you know you have it all. ~ wendy

I have an office space and will be - in - Booking sessions - for April. I have had lots of opportunities to farm out my work but this makes it a bit more of a committment. Thank you for reading and f

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Tuesday, 14 February, 2006

When you're in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks. - Natalie Clifford Barney

A wonderful artist sent this to me and I had to share...BY JEFF SEIDEL FREE PRESS STAFF WRITER My grandfather is dying. He is 95 years old and has congestive heart failure. Several times, over the

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Thursday, 9 February, 2006

I don't wish to be everything to everyone, but I would like to be something to someone. - Javan

Being everything to everyone is a tremendous burden. You can easily forget who you are and end up being noone. Being something to someone is truly special and more than enough work in itself to rememb

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Saturday, 28 January, 2006

The best proof of love is trust. - Joyce Brothers

When you do not trust another - love is lost. (people and pets) The focus is fear and that triggers issues based upon attachment. The desire to control another indicates a need for security, routine,

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Thursday, 20 October, 2005

Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up. - James A. Baldwin

Romantic Love requires a great imagination and a lousy memory but true love is beyond romance. Beauty cannot touch it nor can passion tempt it. The vibration of soul speaks to a kindred soul and the t

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Wednesday, 31 August, 2005

When you breathe, I inhale. ~ wendy

I love you. Three words that make all the difference in the world. -- If you can say them often and mean them, you will never be forgotten. It is when they are spoken as an afterthought, desperation,

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Monday, 29 August, 2005

Dating is so insecure. My last relationship, I was always there for her and she dumped me. I told her about it. I said, "Remember when your grandma died? I was there. Remember when you flunked out of school? I was there. Remember when you lost your job? I was there!" She said, "I know -- you're bad luck." -- Tom Arnold

Dating stuff...survey says...2 months is the magic number on deciding whether a relationship has legs...get serious before two months at your own peril...odds are the other person will be convinced yo

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Monday, 22 August, 2005

Added James Van Praagh web resource...and found this. Am reading: The Afterlife Experiments...

Most people don't really know how healing works. A profound healing brings out not only the most wonderful in a person, it also brings out all the pain that was covering over them. Did you ever wonder

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Tuesday, 9 August, 2005

Sometimes when you have everything you can't really tell what matters. - Christina Onassis

Todays real news...3 squad cars showed up at a New Jersey womans home after they got calls and heard only the sound of someone breathing....the woman blamed her german shepherd, Slayer...said she taug

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Thursday, 4 August, 2005

Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile. - Franklin P. Jones.

When in blind love there is difficulty knowing where one stops and the other begins. Acceptance is complete. Any other emotion and the boundaries are clear. If I am angry, whatever the trigger, I know

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Monday, 25 July, 2005

The only time a woman succeeds in changing a man is when he's a baby. - Natalie Wood

Never a dull moment in the rocky relationship department...Today's star: A Romanian guy hospitalized after he tried to swing from tree to tree to escape his wife and go drinking. - Stefan Trisca, 66,

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Saturday, 23 July, 2005

Among intelligent people the surest basis for marriage is friendship - the sharing of real interests- the ability to fight out ideas together and understand each other’s thoughts and dreams. (Khalil Gibran from Mary Haskell’s Journal. May 26, 1923.)

I added links to Gibran as a result of several comments. The depth and range of color of his descriptions gave life to a magnificent rainbow of thoughts. He found a wonderful companion who no doubt in

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Wednesday, 6 July, 2005

It's only in our minds that we are separate from the rest of the world. - Gay Luce

A bit of info on some recent links -First the Abraham Teachings. This is channeled information. It is wonderfully affirming of our status as creator of who we are. David Hawkins is the author of Power

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Tuesday, 5 July, 2005

He said, "Hello, I have turned over a new me…" She said, "Great…Don’t let the old one trip you on your way out the door." ~wendy

Oh yeah, I got a million of em...Don't talk like that really...maybe sometimes....but I do seem to have a knack for coming up with what I need when I have to. Loved the banter of radio with a partner.

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Saturday, 2 July, 2005

False friendship, like ivy, decays and ruins the walls it embraces; but true friendship gives new life and animation to the object it supports. - Richard Burton

I feel sorry for anyone who has to go through this challenge - it is not one of my favorite tests - but it is yet another lesson in faith. Some people we trust are not necessarily trustworthy nor do t

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Wednesday, 29 June, 2005

Even a thought, even a possibility can shatter us and transform us. - Friedrich Nietzsche

What I want does not have to come true for me to be transformed by the idea. Many of my major achievements have not materialized per se... I have lived them in my dreams. When I bring that wonder into

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Friday, 3 June, 2005

When all is said and done...it's done. ~ it may be someone else's...but it feels like mine...!

One way to relate to your opposite attraction…over a long period of time...is to continue to savor the bloom even as the rose fades...develop stone cold amnesia for every word uttered toward you in an

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Saturday, 28 May, 2005

Hope springs eternal! And Role Models are a wonderful resource. No perfection...just walking the path among us and blazing their own unique trail...

A basis for creating a spiritually healthy relationship is worth passing on...Lots of information very similar to this came through in my channeling. So when I "stumbled" across it a few years back, I

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Tuesday, 17 May, 2005

Update - Should have done this sooner. Aquarius Books was pleased with our results for the class on working with Spirit Guides. Another is in the works. Thank you Barbara.

Thank you for your patience in regard to scheduling sessions. I am trying to get some personal projects launched in addition to locating the proper space. I can say I am shooting for June and - in mos

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Sunday, 15 May, 2005

I would say that you never know, if you care to know, who the love of your life is until it’s over”. - carly simon

I know the face I see...but I don't know if it is love or just...the test of time...I do know love is not what I thought...and my life is not over yet. It will be nice to see how it all turns out afte

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Monday, 2 May, 2005

Shoot for the moon. If you miss, at least you will land among the stars ...whomever said it, thank-you. i am trying to miss...when i see the moon i know i am missing in the right direction cause it's so bright i can't see the stars...

Runaway bride...Thorns on the path. Some are very good at talking two lines, acting somewhat involved, and yet, earnestly seeking opportunity elsewhere before you catch on...In that sense, it is diffi

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Friday, 29 April, 2005

Some here contact me directly rather than on the blog. When I have permission, I share that interaction. From: Hmmm >Subject: blog entry on April 27th.

Wendy, > > I read and reread this entry from a number of different vantage > points. There are so many ways to reflect on the various roles in life > people have that I just can't stay completely fixa

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Thursday, 28 April, 2005

RE: to a mother, smoothtalker, and public speaker...

- MOTHER - Bottom line: it is all about growth. That is why we cannot keep people from doing what is required to grow their own soul. Hurdles are required. The techniques for overcoming them...are as

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Wednesday, 27 April, 2005

Julie Andrews: All love shifts and changes. I don't know if you can be wholeheartedly in love all the time.

The trouble with love...it is different for everyone. Each has an entirely unique program...planted by the environment in which they were raised...if you are not privy to that, you are at a loss to de

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Monday, 25 April, 2005

Rose Colored Glasses took the day off...Now for some submissions from the Cloudy Goggle Contingent...."Start every day with a smile...and get it over with"...W. C. Fields.

Say Lalala to Aliens....and get a nifty, (totally free) suitable for framing, certificate to vouch for your certifiability...www.talk to aliens.com ~ truly-outrageous-musical-interlude...*content

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Monday, 18 April, 2005

An open letter to those who shared their time with me this weekend. (Suggested books and resources.)

Thank you for coming to my session at Aquarius Books! I enjoyed the wonderful diversity and the variety of questions. I hope you took with you a sense of your ability to start where you are and trust

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Friday, 25 March, 2005

Ego shoves others out of the way while groveling and begging for a foothold. Humility says, "You first. My time will come and I will be ready."

The heart does not lie. It may lead us to blind alleys and ferris wheels. We determine how to proceed. All is mist. We manifest the outcome. What we do is measure the length of the action to the width

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Monday, 28 February, 2005

So much for the perfect match...

Why are we are so quick to settle for the quick fix? A very talented astrologer shared an experience with me. In all the years in the field, there was still a hole in regard to a significant other. A

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Friday, 25 February, 2005

If a pickpocket meets a holy man, he will see only his pockets. - Hari Dass.

When confronted with someone who continues to pound you for more when you know the value of what you have already given, remember where you come from. Duck the distraction and come back to center. The

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Thursday, 24 February, 2005

When the going gets tough, the tough...ask a psychic???

It isn't rocket science. Unfortunately, because of the emotions involved, sometimes it can be just as difficult. If you are in the position of asking other people what to do about your relationship, t

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Tuesday, 22 February, 2005

Who can explain their actions when it comes to love? If you can, you are not in love…but you think you are…Ha! So be it.

Love comes from a place that cannot be explained, defined, condensed, or rationalized. It is. You are. There are no neat and tidy bows on this package. It is unpredictable. Something is always there t

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Thursday, 17 February, 2005

If you are not living on the edge, you are taking up too much space…Can’t remember who said this but I love it!

Relationships 101…from a spiritual perspective. Why do the work when the “nattering naybobs of negativity” (what a great phrase no matter how you spell it…i like neighbob...) say you should be looking

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Friday, 14 January, 2005

Predictions!!! Yikes!

Got a request to do predictions. I have managed to avoid this public thing for the most part then realized I was actually doing it without knowing. What a bite! Things just sneak up on me that way

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Tuesday, 11 January, 2005

Introduction for those who missed it...

By vocation, I am a communicator. I have also been a life long student of metaphysics and had many amazing spiritual encounters. At least one saved me from direct physical harm. I tuned out a lot of i

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